Man’s World | Woman’s Earth: The 5 Archetypes of Unattractive Men
If you haven’t already, read the foundation of my philosophy here.
We as a society have accepted that women can be ranked from 1–10 on attractiveness; however, there is little discussion about how we rank men.
As we know, men are the Pursuers and women are the Selectors. At the end, after being pursued by tens, maybe even into the hundreds, a woman ideally Selects one man worthy of an existence beyond his mortality, and passes on his bloodline.
This means women reject a vast majority of the men that they are pursued by. As a woman, it’s not difficult at all to decide which ones are a hard no. In fact, most men are a hard no.
Most women find most men unattractive.
While men search for any reason to say yes to a woman, women search for any reason to say no to a man. Rather than ranking men from 1–10 the same way they rank women, women can more easily rank a man as either a one or a ten. This video demonstrates this phenomenon, as the spread of women is nowhere close to even — there is clearly one man who attracts the most women and there’s one who doesn’t attract any at all.
Women would EASILY rather share one high quality man than have their own low quality man (source: ask any woman). It stems from the evolutionary duty to increase the quality of humanity.
I previously established that the fundamentals of what allows a woman to find a man attractive are his acknowledgement of his duties as a man: Provide, protect, and guide (note how I said acknowledgement and not ability — big difference). The fundamentals are essential to even having potential to be perceived as attractive to women — the blueprint, per say. On top of that is where the rest of attraction comes, such as how well your personalities mesh, physical attraction, etc. These fundamentals are necessary in order to have a woman feel safe and taken care of in your presence, and in turn, release masculine traits and fully exist in her Feminine, her highest and most efficient existence.
Based on these fundamentals of what makes a man attractive, I have dug deep into my experiences to find how unattractiveness stems from a lack in these fundamentals. I have come up with 5 categories of unattractiveness that approximately 95% of men fall into.
The Pleaser
“I don’t know, what do you want to do?” times infinity.
The Pleaser lacks in his ability to Guide due to fear of disapproval from a woman. This man cannot and will not make decisions out of fear that the decisions he makes will not be approved by the woman. This man forces women to adopt the masculine trait of Decisiveness, removing her from her Feminine.
The Son
Looking for a mommy.
The Son lacks in his ability to Guide and looks to a woman for support beyond what comes with a standard, healthy romantic package. In addition to being supportive of his goals and pursuits, the Son expects his romantic partner to also be his therapist. This man will pour his deepest emotions and thoughts out on his woman with the expectation that she will pick it all up, organize it, and hand it back to him. While there are healthy ways to share your emotions with your woman, the Son perceives women as emotional organizers whose intuitive nature exists to make him feel better; in other words, he makes the woman feel like he will be emotionally lost without her. This removes the woman from her Feminine because she has to stabilize her emotions in order to support him. The man is no longer perceived as an admirable, noble Man, but rather a big baby that she has to take care of.
The Deprived
Probably the most common.
While all men intend on sleeping with the woman they are pursuing, the Deprived takes it a step further.
These men exude a stench of desperation. The Deprived man’s entire existence revolves around sleeping with women. He will throw out his morals, his values, his plans, and even his goals if he perceives them as standing in between him and sex with a woman. This man will break bro-code, break his religion, break hearts, cheat, steal, spend any amount of money, and most commonly, lie in the pursuit of sex with a woman. They lack in all three fundamentals as a man because they are plotting against the woman, forfeiting their ability to provide for, protect, and guide her.
The Weak
This one is pretty straightforward. It has been scientifically proven that the stronger a man looks, the more physically attractive he is to women. The Weak lack in their ability to Protect. The Weak man looks physically weak, and in turn, does not give women a feeling of safety when they are around him. This pushes a woman out of her Feminine because even around him, she is still worried about protecting herself. She knows that if shit goes down, the man will be completely useless.
The Scum
These are probably the worst.
The man with absolutely nothing to offer and expects the absolute most in return. They lack in all three fundamentals.
The Scum typically are unable to/refuse to provide, protect, and guide. These men have virtually nothing going for them; no long term goals or plans of bettering themselves. While this is their own business, the differentiating factor between a regular goal-less person and Scum Men is that in addition to not having anything to offer women, they expect women to sleep with them and risk passing on their worthless bloodline. These men also typically have anger issues, probably due to their subconscious knowledge that they are not worthy of sleeping with a woman.
Bonus: The Mid-Life Crisis
This is a niche category, but still common nonetheless. The Mid-Life Crisis is typically an older man who may have been previously attractive in his younger years but is unaware of his budding status as a “creepy old man”; while there are ways to age gracefully, he instead tries seek validation from young women who are at the peak of their sexual market value, thinking he still has what it takes to be Selected by them (or really, I don’t know what he’s thinking. Bless his heart.).
